{"id":951,"date":"2014-11-28T17:54:29","date_gmt":"2014-11-28T23:54:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/?p=951"},"modified":"2015-05-05T21:56:08","modified_gmt":"2015-05-06T02:56:08","slug":"relationship-with-god-my-newest-piece-at-relevant-magazine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/2014\/11\/28\/relationship-with-god-my-newest-piece-at-relevant-magazine\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship with God: My Newest Piece at RELEVANT Magazine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My <a href=\"http:\/\/www.relevantmagazine.com\/god\/practical-faith\/why-does-relationship-god-feel-so-one-sided\">most recent piece about relationship with God is up at RELEVANT Magazine<\/a>. I&#8217;d love for you to check it out!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/S-T-A-R-T.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-952\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/S-T-A-R-T-682x1024.png?resize=511%2C767&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Relationship with God\" width=\"511\" height=\"767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/S-T-A-R-T.png?resize=682%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 682w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/S-T-A-R-T.png?resize=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/S-T-A-R-T.png?resize=300%2C450&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/S-T-A-R-T.png?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 511px) 100vw, 511px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Having a personal relationship with God\u201d\u2014it\u2019s a phrase that gets tossed around in many Christian circles. But what does it actually mean to have a relationship with the Savior of the Universe?<\/p>\n<p>Knowing God is going to look different from any other relationship in our lives. We can\u2019t\u00a0<em>see<\/em>\u00a0God. We can\u2019t look across the table at our favorite coffee shop and talk with Jesus in bodily form. So, in a world where we cannot text God or send Him an email, what does it look like to be in a relationship\u2014to be in a\u00a0<em>friendship<\/em>\u2014with the one who created all things (Colossians 1:16)?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Intentionality<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No deep relationship happens apart from intentional cultivation. Even the relationships that seem to happen \u201corganically\u201d in our lives\u2014those friends we click with immediately\u2014need to be nurtured to one degree or another. We reach out to the people we care about, and we have to seek to be intentional in order to get to know one another. Determining that we actually\u00a0<em>do<\/em>\u00a0want to grow in our friendship with God\u2014and then setting aside intentional time to spend with Him\u2014is an important first step toward getting to know Him better.<\/p>\n<p>No deep relationship happens apart from intentional cultivation.<\/p>\n<p>But while we may be intentional about growing in relationship with God, it may seem challenging because we may not feel God\u2019s intentionality toward us. Still, His intentionality in loving and knowing us is always, always there. The One who created us\u2014the One who \u201cknit [us] together\u201d (Psalm 139:13)\u2014has never wavered in His intentionality toward us. He made each of us specifically and with great love. We are worth a great deal to Him (Luke 12:6-7).<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t have to ask God to pencil us in to His calendar\u2014He always has time for us. Whether it is 15 minutes in the morning where we read the Bible and pray, an hour-long jog while appreciating His creation, or a weekend retreat spent worshiping Him, consistent, intentional time spent getting to know God is one of the foundations of a deep relationship with Him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Communication: Talking<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But what do we do during the time that we\u2019ve set aside to connect with God? As with earthly relationships, the hope is that we will communicate. Communication with God looks both similar and different from communication with earthly friends, but it includes what all healthy relationships include\u2014sharing, confessing and praising.<\/p>\n<p>We share our hearts with God through prayer and tell Him what we\u2019re excited about, what we\u2019re worried about, and what we are thinking about. We open up about the places we have fallen short and confess our sin to Him. And we praise Him for who He is and what we love about Him. We thank Him. We worship Him. Just as we tell our earthly friends how much we appreciate them and are thankful for them, we do the same with God\u2014to the highest degree.<\/p>\n<p>Read about another two aspects of relationship with God,\u00a0Communication: Listening, and Acts of Love and Service <a href=\"http:\/\/www.relevantmagazine.com\/god\/practical-faith\/why-does-relationship-god-feel-so-one-sided\">over at RELEVANT<\/a>!<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My most recent piece about relationship with God is up at RELEVANT Magazine. I&#8217;d love for you to check it out! &nbsp; &#8220;Having a personal relationship with God\u201d\u2014it\u2019s a phrase that gets tossed around in many Christian circles. But what does it actually mean to have a relationship with the Savior of the Universe? 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