{"id":2150,"date":"2018-10-29T07:22:08","date_gmt":"2018-10-29T12:22:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/?p=2150"},"modified":"2018-10-27T12:33:48","modified_gmt":"2018-10-27T17:33:48","slug":"saying-yes-out-of-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/2018\/10\/29\/saying-yes-out-of-fear\/","title":{"rendered":"Saying Yes Out of Fear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.incourage.me\/2018\/10\/overextended-and-searching-for-the-peace-of-god.html\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2151\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2151\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181010-Swindell-FaithFear-1024x628.jpg?resize=1024%2C628&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Saying Yes Out of Fear at www.annswindell.com\" width=\"1024\" height=\"628\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181010-Swindell-FaithFear.jpg?resize=1024%2C628&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181010-Swindell-FaithFear.jpg?resize=300%2C184&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181010-Swindell-FaithFear.jpg?resize=768%2C471&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181010-Swindell-FaithFear.jpg?w=1400&amp;ssl=1 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.incourage.me\/2018\/10\/overextended-and-searching-for-the-peace-of-god.html\">This is the start of my newest article for (in)courage.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>We had just moved cross-country with a kindergartener and an infant, and I was overextended.<\/strong> I could feel it in my body, tense and tight. I could feel it in my mind, stressed and flighty. For the past three years, I had been running my own business to help support our family while my husband was in seminary. Now, we had moved because he had taken a pastoral position, and while I had taken on the new role of being a pastor\u2019s wife, I hadn\u2019t slowed down with anything in my own work. In fact, I had picked up a few more responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>Why? <strong>Well, when you\u2019ve worked at a dream for a while and the door starts to crack open, it\u2019s a good idea to say yes to everything that\u2019s behind the door, right?<\/strong> Because you\u2019re never sure how long that door will stay open or if anyone will let you in ever again, so you should go for it, right?<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Wrong.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Why? Well, for those of us who are pursuing a dream \u2014 whether it\u2019s creative in nature, as mine is, or business-based, or something else entirely \u2014 it can be tempting to say yes to anything and everything that might help us move toward the passions we carry in our hearts.\u00a0<strong>But are we saying yes to opportunities out of faith or out of fear?<\/strong><\/p>\n<span class='bctt-click-to-tweet'><span class='bctt-ctt-text'><a href='https:\/\/x.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fannswindell.com%2Fstaging%2F2018%2F10%2F29%2Fsaying-yes-out-of-fear%2F&#038;text=Are%20we%20saying%20yes%20to%20opportunities%20out%20of%20faith%20or%20out%20of%20fear%3F&#038;related' target='_blank'rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Are we saying yes to opportunities out of faith or out of fear? <\/a><\/span><a href='https:\/\/x.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fannswindell.com%2Fstaging%2F2018%2F10%2F29%2Fsaying-yes-out-of-fear%2F&#038;text=Are%20we%20saying%20yes%20to%20opportunities%20out%20of%20faith%20or%20out%20of%20fear%3F&#038;related' target='_blank' class='bctt-ctt-btn'rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Share on X<\/a><\/span>\n<p>When I\u2019m not walking in God\u2019s peace, I find that fear often takes its place as a big motivator for me. Sadly, I\u2019ve said yes to some writing opportunities because I was afraid the chance wouldn\u2019t come around again. I was afraid of missing out. I\u2019ve overextended myself because I thought the opportunity \u201cout there\u201d was more important than the opportunities I already had right in front of me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I say yes out of fear. I say yes because I\u2019m afraid of being left behind.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.incourage.me\/2018\/10\/overextended-and-searching-for-the-peace-of-god.html\">Read the rest of the article here, at (in)courage!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"www.thewritingmomcourse.com\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2154\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2154\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-32.jpg?resize=600%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"The Writing Mom Course: for moms who want to pursue their passion in the crazy years of motherhood! www.thewritingmomcourse.com\" width=\"600\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-32.jpg?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-32.jpg?resize=300%2C100&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is the start of my newest article for (in)courage. We had just moved cross-country with a kindergartener and an infant, and I was overextended. I could feel it in my body, tense and tight. I could feel it in my mind, stressed and flighty. For the past three years, I had been running my [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2151,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[668,228,778,979,978,592,218,52,45,66,183,980],"class_list":["post-2150","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-ann-swindell","tag-christian","tag-christian-writer","tag-faith-over-fear","tag-freelance-writing","tag-god","tag-incourage","tag-jesus","tag-marriage-2","tag-motherhood","tag-my-soul-is-tired","tag-saying-yes-out-of-fear","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181010-Swindell-FaithFear.jpg?fit=1400%2C858&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2150","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2150"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2150\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2156,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2150\/revisions\/2156"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2151"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annswindell.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}