What Christians Get Wrong About Discipleship: An Article at RELEVANT Magazine

I’m writing over at RELEVANT Magazine today about a topic that stirs my soul: discipleship. Please read the article, join the conversation, and let me know what you think about this issue that is so central to the Christian life! Here’s the start of the article:

To those of us who follow Jesus, discipleship should be a central aspect of our faith. This is because Jesus commanded His followers—in what is commonly referred to as “The Great Commission”—to “go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:18-20).

It’s not a suggestion that Jesus makes here. It’s a command, a charge.

What is discipleship? Put simply, discipleship means intentionally partnering with another Christian in order to help that person obey Jesus and grow in relationship with Him—so that he or she can then help others do the same. Jesus taught His disciples to follow Him and obey His commands so that they could lead others to do the same after His death, resurrection and ascension. The Apostle Paul continues the pattern with Timothy and encourages him to keep the cycle going: “What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men who will be able to teach others also” (2 Timothy 2:2).

But how do we live out this command and actually do what we’ve been called to do? It can help, I think, to look at what we might be getting wrong about discipleship in order to understand how to get it right.

Discipleship Isn’t Easy.

Salvation is free, but discipleship will cost us our lives. Jesus put it bluntly:

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self?” (Luke 9:23-25)

To be a disciple of Jesus means that we have given up our lives in order to follow Him wholeheartedly and unreservedly. It means that our lives are no longer our own—they are His.

Discipleship Isn’t “Just Me and Jesus.”

While discipleship is all about Jesus, it’s not a solitary endeavor. Discipleship is relational, and to fully respond to the Great Commission, we need to be disciples who are making disciples of Jesus. This means we need to spend consistent time with other believers.

Jesus and His disciples spent a lot of time together (Acts 1:21-22). They ate together, walked together, rode in boats together. They even fought together (Luke 9:46-48). The 12 disciples were in one another’s lives, constantly and intentionally.

While we are all called to become disciples of Jesus, we become disciples with one another, learning how to love God and each other as we go. We need to allow others to disciple us by letting them challenge us and encourage us in our walk with God. This is why church and honest relationships with other believers are so central to the Christian life—we need one another in this journey of becoming wholehearted disciples of Jesus.

Read the rest of the article here, at RELEVANT!

 

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Traveling Abroad With Kids: An Article for Darling Magazine

darling.travelingThis has been a big summer for our family. We just got back from a two-week trip to the United Kingdom, and last month, we took Ella with us on our church’s family mission trip to Mexico. Both of the trips stretched us as a family, but both were also wonderful and refreshing, in their own ways. I’ll be sharing more about our time in England and Scotland as the weeks unfold and I have time to reflect, but for now I wanted to share some of the practical things I’ve learned about traveling with a little one through the piece I wrote for Darling Magazine.

Here is the link to my piece over at Darling Magazine. Enjoy!

Money, Money, Money

Another “Flashback Friday” this week–this time to an article I wrote for RELEVANT entitled “Five Commandments About Money.” I wrote it when we were newlyweds and just figuring out how to handle our own money. It’s not perfect, but the sentiments in the article are still, I think, important!

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I hope you enjoy it!

The Dishwasher Blues

Today, I wanted to offer a little “Flashback Friday” and share a piece I wrote for RELEVANT several years ago, entitled “The Dishwasher Blues.” Although we have moved since I wrote this (and we do have a dishwasher now!), the sentiments here are the same. I can often look at what I don’t have rather than what I do have. But the truth is that God has given us all that we need–even if it’s not what my neighbor has.

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I hope this piece encourages you!

Darling Magazine: The Benefit of a Writing Group

Hop on over to Darling Magazine to read my most recent piece for them about the benefit of a writing group.

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If you are a writer, or if you’re interested in writing, this article has some practical tips for how to start your own group if there aren’t any in your area.

Write on, friends!

Stitched Together

I am privileged to have had the opportunity to write about Hand & Cloth for Today’s Christian Woman. Hand & Cloth is one of my favorite organizations; they provide dignified work to at-risk women in Bangladesh who sew kantha blankets. The results are truly stunning! Click here to read the article.

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We have one of these blankets in our home and it is a favorite of mine. I love knowing that it not only beautifies our family room but that it also helps support women who are in a vulnerable place.

Visit Hand & Cloth to see their blankets and read more about their vision!